Life is to be spent but only a few seems to spend it good. Now as a grown up woman of twenty-something most if the people around my age have settled down, have a good job, or taking a post graduate degree.
Knowing the deep desires of human heart, a simple woman would want a family on her own and someone to love for the rest of her life. It is a fact and most of us women have dreamed of that. Well, most likely or definitely others might say. Only that no matter how much we seek those dreams, reality always turn us. It is not what we expect and what we really hoped for. Finding out what is only the best for our hearts content and ignoring our surroundings, even those people who even cared about us. But in the end, still all our hopes fail with loneliness unphatomable.
So, how can we stop this loneliness to surface even for a single minute? All girls are lonely, women are very lonely nowadays, even before. Is it now impossible to be contented and happy?
All I can say is, girls or even boys, that happiness is a choice and I believe that. Even if I’ve never been a happy person growing up, I’ve learned it in a hard way. It never stops us from being lonely though but let us be truly happy. Choose happy never sappy. With love of course.
As a woman it is really borne with us, even for men, to have a company throughout our lifetime. It is embeded deep into the human soul and cannot be denied. Even a wounded soul, scarred as long as she could remember, hopeless because she long for romance and company for the rest of our lives. We know this is true and is not easy to let go, other who learned it in a difficult and hardest way knew that being yourself is enough. For another person cannot give what we truly desire. A love in return the way we loved. All romantic and true.
As long as we hold ourselves higher than the one who deserve all our love. We will never be happy single. For some who been there, happiness is being single. Since we can choose our own happiness. We are even free to choose Jesus each day.
God really manifest himself in perfect life through Jesus, he is never lonely all his days on earth. He knows all, above all things. He can pick the right person for us. Why can we not trust him? He love us more than we could ever imagine. Those happy couple we know loved him first.
Nothing could separate us from his love, not even deep loneliness. What we longed for, he can give. Why not give our love to him first? He deserve it all. Trust him in his choosing for your life. In that way you could truly be happy.
This is my walk, wondering why am I lonely for so long as I could remember. But today I noticed how I never felt that loneliness. How did I live not feeling lonely? I’m not with another though, I live in a broken family but all this love I felt is because I know that my God loves me. He has a wonderful life in store for me. So why not live in pure joy. Not that I looked so happy but my heart is full and contented.
God bless His name!